TY - BOOK AU - Engel,Beverly TI - Breaking the cycle of abuse: how to move beyond your past to create an abuse-free future SN - 9780471740599 PY - 2005/// CY - Hoboken, N.J. PB - John Wiley & Sons KW - Family violence KW - Psychological abuse KW - Sexual abuse victims KW - Victims of family violence N1 - Includes bibliographical references (p. 259-269) and index; What will be your legacy? -- Assessing your risk factors -- Why we do to others (and ourselves) what was done to us -- Coming out of denial -- Learn to identify and manage your emotions -- Learn how to identify and manage your shame -- Managing your anger -- Coping with fear -- How to prevent partner abuse -- How to prevent child abuse -- If you have already become abusive -- If you have already been abused or established a victim pattern -- Emotionally separating from your parents -- Facing the truth about your family legacy -- Breaking into the dysfunctional family system -- Continue to heal ER -